I was first exposed to natural hair through my wife who embraced it early on before it became so popular. I encouraged her to, “Do you!” I feel like hair or lack of hair doesn’t make a woman, it is the way she carries herself. I feel like if a woman can wear a hairstyle and feel confident, secure in herself, comfortable and be herself, it is SEXY to a man.
Natural hair is unique because if you get a chance to be in in a room full of natural women, you experience the beauty of BLACK WOMEN. They all wear their hair in different styles, colors, lengths, and wear different accessories to complement their hair. Not only that but (Note to guys), you see women glow. They feed off the positive energy from each other and nurture and develop one another. They accept and vocalize that this how “GOD made me, I don’t have to continue to buy into what is considered good hair by society or this is what men like". Just me speaking for myself…. Real men like a all-natural women…. No fake hair, nails, or cosmetic surgeries….. God made you all natural and beautiful so there is no need to change something that is already perfect….. So be who you are and, “Do you!”
I would say to all the sisters who are considering going natural to research the advantages and benefits of going natural. Also, talk with other friends or people and get information on hair products and if possible try them before you buy them. You don’t have to buy a lot of hair products that don’t work. (You should see my wife’s surplus of unused product…..lol.)
As far as having a favorite style, if you know my wife, every day is different and seeing the same hairstyle is very rare. I feel like variety is good. I like the fact that when she gets up in the morning and walks out the bathroom I don’t know what I’m going to get….LOL
My favorite hairstyle is the twists…. As a man, it just does something to me…..LOL…. Beauty….
The only message I would like to tell Natural Women is, “You is smart, You is Kind, You is important!” No for real just embrace who you are and what GOD made you to be. Write your own definition of beauty. Natural is Beauty and it is the best beauty…. No additives or preservatives…. No crack no LYE……. My name is Sjon Fisher and I approve this message.